Playing Victim

This is one of those things that I experience almost everyday. There is bitching everyday, no matter where you go, but I hate it when it turns into bitching about being a victim in one way or another. Almost all of conflict that comes a person is in some way aimed toward them due to their own actions.

Luckily this works both ways. We are able to maneuver/dodge these conflicts just as easily. Sure, there are certain circumstances in which you wouldn't think it to be of your doing, but ultimately you could have avoided them.

Let's say you're always bitching about how it rains too much. Sure, the weather is not under your control, but who is making you live here? If it bothers you that much pack your shit up and move to another area. If it doesn't bother you enough to do that, we all could do without the bitching. Talking about something that you have no intention of changing is just a waste of both of our time.

I'm one that is prone to bitch at times, but I am trying to catch myself whenever possible. I wish more people would do the same.

You're not a victim, unless you count yourself as the perpetrator.